I had to write this post after reading slutlyfe’s blog post on orgasm. I used to cum so easily when I was younger. With my fingers, yes, but with a vibrator, almost instantaneously until I was in my 30’s. The problem with me, (should I really say problem?) was that once I came, I came so violently that I did not want anymore stimulation on my clit. I have a really sensitive clit. (Too sensitive, maybe?) Anyway, around the age of 30-35, I began to try to prolong the glorious period right before orgasm. I could make myself stay at almost a peak for a really long time!!! It drives me wild to do so. I become like a different person I think. And my Master always has made me feel that orgasm is not the goal, but instead to stay at that point for as long as possible. The result is also a bonus of a mind blowing, head tossing, sometimes crying and emotional release. Whenever we play, (and when I say play, I mean if we go outside just me and my Master), I do feel pressured to cum, it always seems that others want that goal, and I, too, admittedly have that goal with others. I want to see them cum and be pleasured by me. So, I have said that i have cum, when asked, even though I have not. My Master knows this and respects that I do this, because he realizes that I want to make others happy and not feel bad. An additional bonus to my prolonging my orgasm as a technique is that I have been able to have multiple orgasms with a vibrator. I can go hours and have many orgasms….By that I mean 10 or more and that is really big, mind blowing, screaming orgasms. I can also have very small quick orgasms that cum and go so quickly that I want to immediately have another. I do find a different kind of orgasm when cumming via clit, vagina and anally. To me they feel totally different. All wonderful!!!