Day 17 – What misconceptions about kinky people would you most like to clear up?

First of all, what is kinky?

kink·y/ˈkiNGkē/

Adjective:
  1. Involving or given to unusual sexual behavior.
  2. (of clothing) Sexually provocative in an unusual way.

Unusual being not common.  But perhaps what is known as common is only what has been told aloud in our society for so long.  Why has society only expressed for the most part sex in a common missionary position with one man and one woman?  Because to do otherwise would be akin to being a whore or slut and we wouldn’t want to be perceived as a whore or slut?  And our partners would never want to fuck someone who is a whore or slut?  Right?  riiiiiiiigggghhhhttt…  NOT! I think a lot more people in the world engage in kinky sex of some kind or another, but they just don’t broadcast it.  Unfortunately, people may not even broadcast it to their partner…sad.  I think it is becoming less taboo  and much more accepted.  Look at the ever popular 50 Shades of Grey!!!  Why is it so popular?  Because many, many are actually interested, that is why.

I think ‘kinky people’ are just fortunate to be able to express their desires and not be thought badly of about it because they have found like partners.  Other people may be just as kinky, but because they don’t feel safe to express it, they don’t (except maybe alone) and perhaps are not with anyone who lets them express it and feels likewise.

 

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