TMI Tuesday for July 17, 2012

Most importantly it is the theme of this week’s TMI Tuesday. Tell us about your bed.

 

1. What size (King, queen, full, twin)?  We have the most wonderful King sized bed.  I think that I’ve slept in a king sized bed for about 15 years.  Once you’ve had King-sized, you never go back.  hee-hee

 

2. What mattress construction (conventional springs, air bed, water bed, Tempurpedic-type)?  We have a spring mattress, but I wouldn’t consider it ‘conventional’.  It has a luxurious pillow top, and we paid a fortune for it.  It is the awesomest mattress that I’ve ever slept on (and now it is 6 years old!) 

 

3. What type furniture (just a frame, headboard/footboard, canopy, trundle, etc)? Describe.  Our bed frame can basically be described as ‘massive’.  It is a four poster wooden bed with marble and iron accents.  One post weighs 100#!  It reminded us of our honeymoon bed, but more luxurious!!!
4. If your bed has headboard/footboard or bedposts, have you ever been tied to them? Ever tied anyone to them? For what purpose? Oh, yes!  I have been tied to the bed for different play.
5. What kind of sheets (cotton, linen, silk, flannel)?  We actually prefer flannel.

 

6. What kind of blankets (cotton, wool, thermal, electric)?  We like heavy blankets, comforters, and afghans.  We like the room temp to be very cool.

 

7. What’s on top (bedspread, duvet,…)?  Comforters and afghans and sometimes our fake fur blankets.

 

8. What kind of pillow (down, foam, fiberfill)?  We have two king-sized memory foam pillows, and I have two feather pillows also.

 

Bonus:  Fill in the blank and answer question.

If _____ comes over, will you let them fuck you on your bed? Yes or no.  My Master and I are married and sleep every night in our bed.  Our play with others has never, thus far, been in our own bed.  I suspect that if our lives changed to include play in our house, then we would also include play in our bed, but I would defer that to my Master.

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TMI Tuesday – anal sex

1. How do you feel about giving anal sex (penetration with penis, finger or sex toys)?

a. I love it. ~ although I’m not that experienced, and a little shy about it.

b. I enjoy it.

c. I’m ok with it.

d. I don’t really enjoy it.

e. I don’t enjoy it at all.

f. I have never given anal sex.

g. I have never given anal sex, but would like to start.

2. How do you feel about receiving anal sex (penetration with penis, finger or sex toys)?

a. I love it.

b. I enjoy it. ~ although a little nervous about it and kind of hate to admit that I like it.

c. I’m ok with it.

d. I don’t enjoy it at all.

e. I have never received anal sex.

f. I have never received anal sex, but would like to start.

3. How do you feel about getting undressed in front of a new lover, for the first time, as he/she watches you?

a. It’s a turn on for me. ~ if I see that he/she is interested and likes what he/she sees, but also very shy about my body.

b. It turns me on a little bit.

c. I like it, but only because it gets him/her going.

d. It does nothing for me.

e. I don’t like doing it because I am shy.

f. I don’t like doing it because I think it’s immoral/improper.

4. Do you express your sexual pleasure with moans, groans, sighs, and other noises (provided that you are actually turned on)?

a. Yes, each time I have sex (90-100% of the time).

b. Yes, on most occasions (70-89% of the time).

c. Yes, on some occasions (40-69% of the time).

d. Yes, on a few occasions (10-39% of the time).

e. Yes, but only on special occasions (1-9% of the time).

f. Never, not even when I am really turned on.

5. Do you talk to your partner in a sexually explicit way?

a. Talking dirty is one of our favorite activities.

b. Occasionally, I like to talk dirty with my partner, and I do it with ease.

c. I talk dirty with my partner, but it feels awkward. ~ shy would be a better word.  I find it embarrassing, but my Master likes to MAKE me say things.

d. I would like to talk dirty with my partner, but I don’t dare for fear of being judged or ridiculed.

e. I would like to talk dirty with my partner, but she/he isn’t into it.

f. I don’t talk in such a way because I think it is inappropriate.

g. I don’t talk in such a way because I can’t bring myself to do it.

6. What kind of animal do you most sound like when building to a climax?

a. quiet little mouse ~ I think?  But when I actually climax, sometimes I hurt my own ears…yikes, how embarrassing!

b. low moaning wolf

c. screeching beluga whale

Bonus: Which do you prefer comfort sex or thrill-seeking sex? Why? ~ I guess the answer would be both!  I just love sex!  But, thrill seeking pretty damn awesome!!!

Comfort seekers value deep intimacy, quiet engagement and trust over time of familiar relationships. For them sex is best as a safe, loving nurturing space.*
Thrill seekers value wild energy, adventure and novelty; they are willing to try open relationships, testing themselves outside average sexual practices. These folks crave a place to push the boundaries of new experiences.*

*Adapted from Susan Mernit’s blog

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