Kink of the week – Roleplay

Roleplay – an interesting topic to explore.  I consider myself a submissive and my husband a Dominant and Master.  We don’t pretend or roleplay.  It is true that the degree to which we are expressing our submissive and Dominance.  We definitely express more of the BDSM when we are in bed/having sex.  And because we are long term partners –  We’ve been together for about 10 years – i think life gets in the way sometimes of our degrees.  But as for the roles we are – as opposed to playing them – I feel I really am submissive and don’t think that I could ever play the Dominant.

We have done a little role play that does not have a definite line between role play and real selves and that is the Daddy/Little Girl thing.  For me, it IS a big turn on, not only because it makes me wet even writing about it, but because it shares so much with Dom/sub.  I like to feel vulnerable, when I know I am safe.  I like the thought of being “made” to do things in any text, actually.  I never was abused as a child and I never had sexual thoughts of my father, whom I adored and thought was awesome!  Even when we play this role, I don’t think of my father at all, but rather of my Master.  Because for me, it is all about power – whatever the name!

I think it would be fun to role play in some other situations.  I think if my Master were leading it, I could easily fall into any role that he wanted me to be put in as long as I were still allowed to be my submissive self.

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  1. Hi there! Thanks for adding your post to the Kink of the Week! I agree with you, I don’t “play” my BDSM role (submissive/bottom/occasional masochist.) But I certainly enjoy when “Sexretary Days,” when I call him Boss all day and he does a whole lot of “Bossing” me around! so if that’s role play, I’m good with it. 😉

    PS – If you put the script above into the HTML code side of your post, rather than the WYSIWYG side, it’ll show the KOTW badge with the link, rather than the code.) 🙂

  2. Yep, life gets in the way at times, which can be quite irritating indeed.

    We are not into roleplay, but I too like to feel vulnerable and to be made to do things. However, I do not see that as roleplay, but as doing what He expects of me.

    Thanks for sharing your thoughts 🙂

    Rebel xox

  3. I started out with age play with my first Dom and still get a shiver when I think about it, but I don’t miss it with my current Sir. He and I don’t do role play at all, but I do enjoy some online play 🙂

    ~Kazi xxx

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