Day 2 – Describe who you might submit to and how. Are you exclusively submissive in marriage or just in the bedroom? Are you submissive only in the context of a scene or in a role or throughout your daily life? Are you submissive to play partners or only in the context of a relationship?
I’m exclusively submissive to one – my Master. We are married. I am submissive totally in the bedroom and mostly outside the bedroom when with him. I do have some stubborn streaks and he lets me get away with a lot. But he has said that this will change, so we will see. I defer to him for most all decisions, but on the other hand, I have a career. His way of thinking is, that if it is not something that he has stated beforehand, or if he is unavailable, then I am to make my best guess. (I would also add that if I forget, and don’t remember a rule, and he doesn’t say anything about it, then I tend to continue doing my own thing).
Another aspect of submission in our relationship is my being submissive to whom he tells me I must. We sometimes “play” with others, usually couples and not always into BDSM. But that doesn’t stop my Master from getting what he wants out of the play. When we play with other couples, we play together in a group usually and he orders me throughout the play, telling me to suck cock, eat pussy, etc… He enjoys seeing me be used and servicing others. He enjoys seeing me be jealous by his interactions with other women. But, he is so good that I honestly don’t feel bad. He still makes me feel number one. And I want to please him. 🙂