Day 25 – Are there items, objects or rituals that represent or help you express submission? If not, have you ever thought of adding or being gifted one? Is there a special significance to these objects or rituals?
First, I’ll address the items or objects that help represent my expression of submission. Often a sub has a collar of sorts. Usually, it is something that is given by the Master to the sub for her to wear as a representation of her submission to HIM. The first thing of this sort was my belly button ring. I chose to get a belly button ring as a subtle adornment to show that I belonged to my Master. I asked him for help in choosing my first belly button ring. I got my belly button pierced and wore a small pure gold ring with a fake diamond stone. It was huge for me! My Master told me that it would be my collar. I wear it to this day. In 2006, we got engaged and married. I wear a custom made engagement ring and a wedding ring. We have very unique matching wedding bands with very significant meaning. They are of my Master’s design and choosing. Then a few years ago, my Master bought me a silver Cartier Love bracelet. It is permanent. He bought and gave it to me at Christmas and screwed it together on my arm with the accompanying silver screw driver. It is never to be removed except by him. It has been on my wrist ever since. 🙂 sigh……. so romantic!
I would love to have a permanent collar or necklace like collar that is permanently locked onto my neck. I would also love to have a tattoo. Actually, I want a couple that are representative of my relationship. First I would like to have my Master’s initials tattooed onto my pussy lips. Second, I would like to have a bdsm symbol tattoo, somewhere on my body. Thirdly I would like to have a matching tattoo with my Master of his design. (I actually have 2 more tattoos in mind that are not bdsm related and no, currently I have no tattoos. haha)
Now, for the subject of rituals. Hmmmmm…..exactly what is a ritual.
rit·u·al adjective \ˈri-chə-wəl, -chəl; ˈrich-wəl\
: done as part of a ceremony or ritual
: always done in a particular situation and in the same way each time
Okay, that helps. I don’t have that many rituals that I currently practice, but I know that my Master and I look forward to adding more into our lives. I make coffee every morning for my Master and I follow a particular routine and method each time, so I think it might be called a ritual.
I always walk on the right side of my Master or slightly behind him.
I never wear perfume without asking my Master and hearing his decision for perfume for the day.
I look forward to sharing any new rituals!!!