Tomorrow is December 1.

I’m pondering.  Should I do some kind of 12 days of Christmas thing.  Or should I do an advent of some sort?  I have a present that I’ve half-way devised for my Master and wondering if I should work on that and give it to him ahead of time.  (It’s something that is 0 cost, but will take time to utilize.) I want to do something!  Direction please!

Guess The Blogger … get set …

Come on bloggers! I’m in! Are you?

Accidental Masturbator

Ladies & Gentlemen, this is your 24hr reminder to get your sexy selfies in for Guess The Blogger.

We have enough entries to run the competition, but it would be great to see everyone who has liked the quiz so far, getting their fur coats off and showing us their knickers. If the want to get their knickers off too, as a couple of entrants have done, that’s not prohibited by the rules either.

That said, I might have to rethink my photo if it’s not going to be completely obvious, unless we get a few more male entries. (Who would have thought the boys would be shy about getting their bits out?!)

How to enter is here, but basically you just need to send your photos to …


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10 principles for healthy 24/7 D/s and M/s

This was an extremely good post. I was really impressed. We are a 24/7 Dom/sub relationship and this really accentuated a lot of my thoughts and feelings. If only it weren’t so hard to connect to others living 24/7.

Sex Geek

I recently taught a workshop called “Doing it 24/7: The Basics of Everyday Dominance and Submission.” It was an interesting experience—essentially it showed me that there’s a strong interest in the topic that goes way beyond what can fit into a 90-minute time slot. I’m seriously thinking of developing a workshop series on the topic and offering it on a weekly basis in Toronto somewhere. In the meantime, I figured I’d post some of the basic stuff I started with.

First, let me frame this. I’m not drawing a distinction between 24/7 D/s and M/s, because I find that different people use the terms in overlapping ways. So rather than say what I think each one is, I’ll just say that I’m talking about relationships that involve a full-time power hierarchy. For me, that means relationships in which the two (or more) people involved always relate to one another from…

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Feeling Used.  Feeling Good.  Details from Last Night –

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One of the kinks that Master likes and I’ve also come to like, is dirty talking with others.  My Master enjoys other women.  I think I’ve posted about that before.  We are poly, but that means so many different things to different people.  So here is what transpired last night.

We were sitting on our bed, each on our own laptops and phones.  LOL.  But we are more together than you think.  We talk to each other and text and show each other things on our phones and laptops all the time.  And we know what each other is doing.  We share.  We also share my Master’s enjoyment of another woman.  I start to get up from the bed and I say that I guess I should get ready for bed.  Honestly, I should have said, “May I get ready for bed?”  But also, he probably should enforce that.  He said that he met a woman online who is interested in listening to us have sex and talking while we do, and so he wanted to have his cock sucked while he talked to the woman.  Her name was Marcella.  Oooooo….I suddenly got very excited. I love it when he uses me like that.  It is a real turn on.  I love being involved in this scenario.  So, I ask him if I can have a few minutes to get ready.  And he says yes.  So, I get ready for bed and then come back to the bedroom and start to undress.  He has already undressed and is texting, I assume, to Marcella.  As I get into bed, he calls Marcella.  He starts chatting with her a bit and then tells me to get down between his legs and start sucking his cock.  I readily comply because I really am a cock whore.  I LOVE to suck cock.  My Master tells me that I am the best all the time and this, of course, makes me proud and also makes me want to do it more.  I have to keep on top of my game, after all!  He talks to her and finds out that she is submissive switch and has been in a Dom/sub relationship, but is currently single.  He tells her about me that I am a good submissive, that I am shy and that I’m a wonderful cock sucker and brags about me a bit.  He has me to lick his cock and suck his balls and as he gets more and more turned on, he gets more and more forceful and talks more and more dirty and the whole things is just turning me on more and more.  He asks me questions such as, “Do you like it that Marcella is getting my cock hard?”  and makes me answer yes, so that Marcella can hear.  He makes me say TY to Marcella over and over throughout the play.  Then he tells me to turn my ass toward him while I’m sucking his cock so that he can spank me.  He tells Marcella how much he likes her cute little voice and that it makes him hard.  He spanks me a couple swats and tells me that Marcella is gasping each time I get smacked and he likes that.  He asks Marcella if she wants him to spank me more and I assume she says yes, because he then starts swatting me more and more and telling me that he is spanking me because Marcella wants it.  In these situations, I am the bottom.  He reminds me of this.  He asks me if I understand.  I say yes.  I’m so torn up at this point that I really will submit to anything, I think.  He tells me to straddle his chest, 69-style so he can see my little asshole.  Then he starts to rub his finger in circles around my asshole with a wet finger and telling Marcella that he will finger that ass for her if she wants and maybe she wants him to fuck me in the ass.  I’m dying I’m so horny.  I’m rubbing my pussy on his chest and playing with his balls and getting my ass fingered and my shyness has all but disappeared.  He says that’s it, you are going to get fucked in the ass.  Then he gets up, laying the phone on the bed while he gets lube.  He tells me to lay down and I lay face down on the bed. The phone is near my head.  He pours some lube on, and starts to enter me…..oh, the burn!  I’m half crying, half moaning, half sucking in my breath because it hurts.  He is gentle and goes in slow, but damn it hurts.  But it hurts good.  As he gets all the way in, I feel his cock and balls pulsing wildly.  I’m thinking he is ready to cum.  Then he starts fucking me, talking to me and Marcella and telling me to make him cum.  Come on, he says, you can take it for me, can’t you, slut?  Oh, yes, Sir,  I can.  He fucks me and fucks me while I whine and moan and finally he lets his load go.  I love hearing him cum as he grunts and talks.  He does not cum quickly.  I mean when he cums, he does not usually cum for a mere 3 or 4 seconds.  The release of his cum just seems to go on and on.  I love it.  So, his final thrusts and grunts go on over and over.  OH, I really, really love it.  Then I feel proud because he always tells me what a good, good girl I am.  He kisses the back of neck and my shoulders and my tattoo between my shoulder blades.  Then he talks to Marcella for a minute, telling her how much he enjoyed talking with her, asking if she enjoyed it, and telling her to text anytime.  After he hangs up, he again tells me how hot he was for me and how good it was.  I’m so happy.  He pulls out, which I HATE!  As he cleans himself off, I ask if I can have the vibrator.  He says yes. I put the vibrator on my clit and he sucks my nipples and slaps my tits and bites me and talks to me, telling me to cum for him.  My asshole is sore and burning, still, and that makes my clit even more sensitive. I am so turned on that I cum so fast and hard that I scream and my left hamstring cramps up.  LOL  ohhhh that hurt.  And then we both laugh.  And then I start again. And he starts again, holding my neck, mmmm, and smacking me here and there, telling me to cum for him.  After a few minutes, (or several, who’s counting, it feels so good!), I finally cum again really hard, really good, panting, and spent.  Mmmmmmmm…..we cuddle and then go to sleep.  Awesome evening!

My Master’s Bath

As soon as my Master informed me that he wanted me to bathe him, I was super excited!  First, I quickly ran to my computer to look up any sexy tips on giving a man a bath.  I read a few pages worth of google results and then started to assemble my tools.  But, first, I needed a refill on my eggnog!  Hee hee, this was going to be so fun!

Now, we don’t have a large bathroom.  In fact, it is smaller than our previous bathroom, but it has a tub in it, which we hadn’t had.  My intent was to turn our little bathroom into a serenity spa to induce relaxation and comfort, with hopefully a “happy ending”.  😉

My tools –

  • Iphone dock with speakers
  • Iphone with Pandora app
  • Incense
  • Multiple candles
  • Lighter
  • 2 towels
  • Washcloth
  • Scented bath/shampoo wash (Old Spice)
  • Bubble bath – unscented
  • Small bowl with 2 TB olive oil
  • Cup
  • Glass of rum for Master
  • His robe
  • Black negligée and black thongs
  • My robe

Ok, tools collected.  Now to prepare the bathroom. My bathroom was already sparkling clean, so on for decorating.   I turned on the heat, plugged in the iphone speaker dock, and arranged the tea light candles.  The tub has crevices for shampoos and the like, so I put one in each of the crevices – 6.  Then I placed a decorative plate onto the toilet seat with 9 little candles around and a large candle in the middle.  I then laid out the washcloth and put the towels in the microwave for 1 minute.  I got my bowl of oil and put it beside the tub.  I hung his robe on the hook and then poured him a glass of rum which I put on the sink.  I turned the Pandora station to Love Songs and muted it for now.  Then I dressed into my sexy black negligee and black thongs and put on my robe.  I started running the bath and put in the bubbles.  Then I lit the incense stick and lit all the candles -16 in all, and turned out the lights – PERFECT!  Damn!  I should have taken a pic! Ok, next time. Then I went to the bedroom and asked my Master if he was ready for me to bathe him.  (Mind you, I would NOT be joining him in the bath.  I had bathed earlier and this was all about him.)  He said he was.  I downed the rest of my third glass of eggnog and rum, and so it began!

First I removed my robe, displaying my sexy self to him.  He smiled in appreciation.  I then removed all of his clothing and handed him his robe to put on.  (Now that I think about it, I should have walked behind him and put it on for him.  Ok, next time.) Then I led him into the bathroom where I unmuted the love songs station and took his robe and hung it up.  He stepped in and I asked him how the water was.  He said fine and I continued to let the water run in, while he sunk into the bath, reclining back, and then I handed him his rum.  I knelt beside the tub and began to slowly squeeze the water from the washcloth lovingly over his body to wet him all down.  I turned off the water and asked him to sit up first, so I could wash his hair.  I wet his hair and then soaped his scalp and massaged his scalp slowly and gently.  Then I rinsed and gave him a warm wet towel around his head and neck and he reclined back again.  Next, on to his beard.  I LOVE his beard.  I love facial hair on a guy.  After rinsing, I started on the rest of him, soaping up every gorgeous part of him and rinsing him off, while he just relaxed and sipped his rum. It was sooo incredibly romantic as I listened to the love songs and gazed into his eyes.  He gazed back and I thought how much I loved him so.   I soaped and washed his cock and ass next and then I leaned over and sucked his cock a bit.  Then I asked him if I could massage his feet.  He said yes and so, one at a time, I took his feet and massaged olive oil into them all around his toes, balls of his feet and heels and I really tried to concentrate on massaging his arches.  I think he enjoyed himself.  I then sucked some more on his cock, but he wanted to get out and go to the bedroom first, so I dried him off thoroughly with the other warm, dry towel and then he put his robe on and we went to the bedroom.  I got up on the bed, kneeling between his legs and sucked and licked and fondled his cock until he rewarded me finally with sweet cum. MMmmmmmmm!!!!

One awesome, romantic evening, indeed!

Giving my Guy a Bath……

OMG!  I am so excited.  My Master, just out the blue, said to me a little while ago,  “You know, now we have a bathtub.  It has been a while since you gave me a bath.  If I’m going to have a bath, you have to bathe me.”

Now, I am so excited that I can hardly stand it.  It’s like a date!  It IS a date!

Details later.