THE SCALE | SEVEN MATRICES OF SUBMISSION

 

1. How much do you like being owned? On a scale of 0 to 10. Do you enjoy hearing “You are mine I own you?”, this extends to being marked as someone’s property, being someone’s baby, little girl, slave, their thing, etc.

—–Definitely a 10!!!  I love being owned.  I wear a permanent bracelet and wish for a tatoo to show that I am owned.

2. How much do you like to serve, on a scale of 1-10 — 0 being “I do not much care to serve people”, 10 being “It is my life to serve you! Let me massage your feet, bring you a drink, etc…”

—–8 if my needs/wants are being considered, 10 if serving includes my needs and desires….With my Master…it is def. a 10 because he always thinks of me…maybe too much.

3. How much do you want to be degraded, yelled at, called “dirty” or a “slut”. (This includes being humiliated, made to do things in public, objectified etc.)

—–10..If I know that it makes my Master happy or horny!!!  YES!!!

4. How much do you want to be tied down and restrained. This means to be restricted, having your ability to move being restricted via being tied up. (This can include being caged.)

—– 8…I haven’t had much experience outside of sex scene, but think I would enjoy more.  I know that I do not like being restrained for the duration of  a night because I cannot sleep.  I also being uncomfortable for a really long time.  But, I’m up for more of being tied up.  I LOVE being restrained during sex.

5. Do you want or need to be beaten? This is not always about pain. You can “beat” someone for long periods of time without hurting them. When you are beaten you are the center of someone’s physical attention. This is about having someone use their strength against you…its not the pain but being the focus of a partner’s aggression. And of course, some people do like pain.

—–10…I like some pain and it makes me feel calm and centered to have a beating…especially if it occurs for a long period of time and not just a few quick hard whacks…although I like that too.  And, if it makes my Master horny or he just desires it and I know this….oh, boy, I really REALLY WANT to submit to this.

6. How much do you like to be fucked…This may not be about penetration–but having someone devote sexual attention to you. How much do you like to be the focus of someone’s sexual attention?  Thrown down and fucked, used for someone’s pleasure…

—–10,10,10…I love penetration and I love being wanted and used!

7. How much do you desire to be given away — In the Story of O, at the final scene, the character is “given away” to someone by her lover. When this happens in real life, usually it’s not permanent, but perhaps you’ve been very “bad”, so your partner’s friends are going to use you. This reinforces the fact that you are such a powerful object of pleasure.

—–8…I’m scared of this…to be given to someone else…not sure if I could handle this.  If it were temporary, and I knew that my Master desired this and wasn’t wanting to get rid of me, then I would serve in this way.  When we go out and swing, I feel that I am serving my Master by fucking the other people that we are with.

Sexual Bucket List

I reposted this from a couple other sites.  Looks Cool.  Now let’s see.  X marks BEEN THERE DONE THAT….

1 Kiss a girl x

2 Have anal x

3 Have a threesome x

4 Engage in group sex x

5 Have phone sex x

6 Masturbate x

7 Use a vibrator x

8 Use a sex toy on someone else x

9 Be tied up x

10 Tie someone up

11 Have sex in a public space
12 Be a voyeur and watch others having sex (live, porn does not count) x

13 Sex in a car x

14 Sex at a drive-in  (the problem now is finding one)

15 Mile-high club

16 Sex with a stranger x.

17 One-night stand x

18 Married sex x

19 Sex on a boat

20 Sex in a body of water (does in a pool count?)

21 Light spanking x

22 Read erotica x

23 Play strip poker/Monopoly/card game x

24 Sex in the shower x

25 Sex standing up against a wall x

26 Sex with no kissing x

27 Sex in the pitch black x
28 Sex in the broad daylight x

29 Making out with no sex long after you’re no longer a virgin x

30 Sex in a tent in the wilderness x (Does a campground count?)
31 Watch porn together x

32 Watch porn alone x

33 Learn to give yourself multiple orgasms x

34 Sex on the beach
35 Blindfolds x

36 Using ice sexually x  (I hate being cold, but sine the ice was only on “certain body parts” it was ok.)
37 Sexual role play x

38 Whipped cream  (How about chocolate? x)
39 La Perla lingerie sex (What is this?)
40 Frederick’s of Hollywood lingerie sex x

41 Sex with someone much older
42 Sex with someone younger (legal!) x
43 Sex in a foreign country, possibly with a foreigner X
44 A quickie in a skirt x

45 A longie in the rain
46 Sex in the ocean while people swim all around you

47 Feather ticklers  (I hate to be tickled.)
48 Sex while “altered” whether by alcohol or something else x

49 Learn to orgasm in less than five minutes from intercourse alone  (Never counted the minutes…but seriously doubt it.)
50 Silent sex in a full house x