TMI TUESDAY: DECEMBER 2, 2014

TMI Tuesday: December 2, 2014

It’s a new month, a new week, a new TMI Tuesday…

Relationships: beginning, middle, the end.

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1. A sexy person you’ve been admiring says, “Let’s do something wild together.” What is the thing you pick to do?

Obviously, the sexy person I’ve been admiring would be my Dom.  And in that case, he would then name what it was we were going to do.  My guess would be a hook-up with a woman for some two girls, one guy kind of sex.  🙂

2. I saw this headline: Whip Your Vagina Into Shape. Sadly the subject matter wasn’t what I wanted. Anywho…which way would you prefer to whip your vagina into shape. (Fellas you can select your fave way you’d like to whip a pussy or see it whipped)
a. a nice, stingy pussy spanking by hand.
b. doing kegel exercises with kegel balls.
c. having some SM master/mistress actually whip your pussy, with a whip!

I would have to select letter a, because I have experienced this many times and I like it.  I would love to experience the other two.  😉

3. When in a relationship (married, living together or dating) What do you do if you want to be alone for a while? How do you get “me” time?

In our 24/7 relationship, we are together a lot, but we are also doing our own things sometimes.  Such as now, I’m blogging and he’s on his phone playing or texting someone.  A little earlier he was on his computer.  I also get alone time by taking a long bubble bath, after asking permission.  And I’m also alone in my car as I drive to and from work.  My Master does all the shopping and so while he’s gone, I have the house to myself. I don’t crave anymore me time than I already have.  🙂

4. Which of these subjects causes the most tension or fighting between you and your significant other?
a. in-laws
b. children/step-children
c. finances
d. housekeeping

Definitely finances.  We don’t fight about it, but we both at times have tension about it, basically because there is never enough, not because we disagree at spenditures.  I gave up all control of money when we married.  I accept the decisions and feel he does a great job.

5. When breaking up with someone or ending a relationship, which method is more your style?

a. dramatic exit– sending texts and phone calls and taking the chance to vent about all the things you didn’t like about the person.

b. play it cool and be upfront and tell them “it’s not working out.”

c. slow down the time you spend together…fade away and disappear without a word.

I would say letter b except for one thing.  It will never work that way if kids are involved…such as divorce which is really the only way I’ve been involved in a breakup.

6. I know none of YOU would ever break up with someone via text message (btw, there is an app for that http://www.breakuptext.me/) but if you did, what would your text read?

Sorry dude.  It’s over!  LOL

Bonus:  Would you like you if you met you? Why?

I think so.  I think I’m kind, funny, willing to try lots of new and different things and I get excited over anything!  I also think I’m a great listener and can be a great and loyal friend.

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“The emotions aren’t always immediately subject to reason,
but they are always immediately subject to action”

Quote from philosopher-pyschologist William James

Laughter: What makes you laugh?

Lots of things make me laugh. My Master is hilarious and makes me laugh all the time. I think humor is very, very important!

Anger: This past week, who or what really pissed you off? What happened?

Honestly, I can’t really think of anything that pissed me off this week. I guess I did get somewhat mad at a friend who told me she would have to check her calendar in response to my lets get together (coworker not a sex partner). And then she never got back to me. I felt mad and rejected. awwww. oh, well, onward.

Fear: What phobia did you have but overcame?

I used to be deathly afraid of heights and I’ve somewhat overcome that. (The helicopter ride in the Bahamas kind of cured me. LOL)

Surprise: Recently, what unexpected act or behavior did you experience in your sex life?

Um, well, the last time we went on a playdate, I was actually on my period. I had a tampon in and still wanted to play, but only like me giving oral and so forth. Surprisingly, the woman of the couple we were playing with fucked me in the ass with a strap on dildo. I was surprised, but went with it as my Master was encouraging me. Also, Master bought me a really cute sundress!

Trust: Many on-going relationships have a certain predictability about them. Does that certainty translate into trust?

I’m not sure about that. I mean I totally trust my Master, but he is definitely not always predictable.

Excitement: Who do you excite?

I hope that I excite my Master. And I also hope that I excite whatever play partners we encounter.

Bonus: What intimate activity do you share with your partner, something that is meaningful to your relationship? For example Sunday breakfast in bed, cooking, maintenance spanking, etc.

There are sooo many things! I serve him coffee in bed and we often sit beside each other and get on our computers and converse and share as we do. We also text like crazy to each other. We spend a LOT of time together and we never tire of it. We’ve been married for 8 years! Things only get better.

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Today’s TMI Tuesday I’m Just Askin’ …

Just askin'

1. We are just a few months into 2014 but I want to know what have you done this year that you have never done before?

Let’s see. We moved twice, so to speak. Just moved again over Christmas. Now we live a few blocks from beach. THAT is exciting!

2. You are going to a deserted island, your only entertainment will be to read. What five (5) books will you take with you?

1. The Bible 2. Nook (assuming this deserted island has electricity – I mean, it could happen, couldn’t it?) lol 3. 4. and 5. would have to be some kind of survival manuals. haha….i like to be prepared.

3. We all change and grow over time (at least you should). What two (2) things do you miss about the old you? Why?

I miss my energy and strength from before my heart issues.

4. How would you define and calculate ‘sexual satisfaction’?

Sexual Satisfaction: The feelings that result from seeing or hearing my Master say that I am a good girl because I have made him orgasm with my body in some way and also, but secondly when i am fucked or i cum.

5. Porn–Has it ever been good for your relationship? Has it ever been bad for your relationship?

I believe that it has always been good. It is a turn on for my Master and for me and has broaden my horizons. I’ve learned so so much. Like I really had not seen any other woman’s pussy up close until I saw porn. I also had never heard a woman orgasm until I saw porn. (and learned to tell what was probably fake. LOL) I never saw a lot of things until porn, actually. 🙂

Bonus: Is there a secret you’d like to share? What is it?

I think I’m somewhat into pussy torture. (gasp!)

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TMI Tuesday February 17, 2014

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1. The Price is Right:

What is the right price to make you have sex with a total a total stranger?
If my Master told me to do it, then the price would be $0. Pleasing my Master – priceless!

2. Make Me Laugh:

What part of your naked body when touched, makes you laugh?
I’m pretty ticklish all over, but my feet are the worst. Actually, I don’t laugh, though, I scream! I don’t like it at all. The other parts of my body that are pretty ticklish are the back of my neck, the underside of my arms, my sides, and my inner thighs. It depends on my mood as to whether I laugh. Once I get turned on, I don’t laugh. And the back of my neck doesn’t make me laugh, but rather shiver….everytime!

3. Family Feud:

What act could you do or thing could you say that would really upset your significant other?

Let’s see. There are many things that I could say that would upset my Master. I guess the most upsetting would be if I asked him to leave. ugh….don’t even want to go there.

4. Supermarket Sweep:

You’ve been set free in a sex toy market that includes small items (e.g. condoms, vibrators) to large items (e.g. Sybians, spanking benches) and everything in between. What 5 items will you put in your shopping cart?

ooooo…there are so many things that I’d like to try! I would definitely want to know which ones my Master wanted to use on me most. I know that he has mentioned before a floor mounted fucking machine? I think I might be scared of that, but I’m sure he would make sure it was safe before using it on me. The second thing I would pick is something that delivers shocks of different degrees. I’ve always been interested in what that feels like. The third think I would pick, would be a ball gag. I have one that is made of silicone and shaped more like the head of a cock, but I would like a more serious one. The fourth thing that I would pick is a crop. I’ve never experienced one, and I think I would like to feel it. And I guess the fifth would be a more serious flogger. We have one that is made of silicone, but I would like one made of leather. Oh, damn! only 5? sigh…:)

5. The Dating Game (Blind Date, UK version; Perfect Match, Australian version).
For fun click HERE to see the crazy fashion of the bachelorette, plus actor John Ritter is one of the bachelors.

Part I – There are 3 contestants to which you will pose your questions. Will your contestants be of your opposite sex, your same sex, or a mix?

Same sex. I would pick same sex because of my Master’s interest in having another sub. In my fantasy dating game, the contestants would also be submissive or switch and be looking to be part of a poly relationship (By this, I mean, having one Master to share.) The contestants would also have to be bisexual or bicurious.

Part II – What are 3 questions you would ask the contestants?

Question 1 – Are you bisexual or bicurious and what makes you think so?
Question 2 – Are you submissive or switch and what makes you think so? Also, if you are switch, do you lean toward submissive more or toward Dominate more and what makes you think so?
Question 3 – In a poly relationship with my Master, where would you like to fit, as topping me or equal and siding with me. If my Master were to place you as over or under me, where would you rather be and why?

Bonus: TMI Tuesday Cash Cab (several International versions) – Unsuspecting taxi passengers hail a cab and suddenly find themselves on a TV game show. While on the cab ride you must do specific acts ordered by your cab driver in order to win cash and get the full free cab ride to your destination.

The TMI Taxi has just picked you up. How much cash will you win? At which level will you stop the cab, end the ride, and be dumped at the curb?

Level 1: Flash passers-by either by lifting your shirt or mooning them – $20 (all cash prize amounts are USD)
I’m assuming that my Master is requiring me to participate, so that is a no-brainer. Show me the money!
Level 2: Dry hump another passenger in the cab with you (remember the camera is recording) – $50
Again, Show me the money!
Level 3: French kiss the cab driver for 1 minute – $75
Show me the money!
Level 4: Have sex, in the cab, with the other passenger who is a complete stranger and…
– if you are gay/lesbian the stranger is heterosexual
– if you are heterosexual the stranger is your same sex
– if you are bisexual you are just having fun *wink*

Cash prize $1000

I’m bisexual and so…yes, Show me the money! *wink*

TMI Tuesday October 22, 2013

1. You’ve been waiting forever for your significant other to propose marriage, when they finally do it is in the form of a bribe: “Lose 10-15 lbs. (approx. 1 stone U.K.; approx. 6 kilos) and I will marry you…the wedding can be anyway, and anywhere of your choosing…just lose some weight.”

Would you accept this proposal?

I guess that depends on several factors.  Perhaps this is a Master telling his submissive to do something that is for her very own good.  Perhaps this if for her own self-image, which she may be complaining about.  On the other hand, if she felt like this was a factor in making him love her?  Uh, then no.  But, she should already know this before the proposal.

2. Are you participating in any Halloween festivities? Will you wear a costume? If yes, what?

I would absolutely LOVE to dress up and go to a Halloween party of some kind.  But, alas, no, I’m not.  Maybe another year.  I would love to wear a costume, whatever my Master might suggest.  Maybe a cat?  Or maybe a maid outfit.  It would be fun to go to a party that was not just to socialize at, but doing something – maybe some swinger fun or bdsm play.

3. Forget the fact that you have a blog, in real-life are you:

a. an over-sharer who tells every detail of your personal life to everyone including the barista at Starbucks?

b. a little discriminating in who you decide to talk to about your personal life, feelings, etc.? Your love life isn’t off limits to friends and family but you don’t confide in total strangers.

c. as tight as a clam? You don’t share important details with friends and family and when you do it about kills you because you are extremely private.

I guess it would be c.  I do share a little, but not much.

4. MEN your significant other has asked to sleep with your cock in his/her mouth, what are your first thoughts? Would you say yes or no? Why?

LADIES/significant other…your guy just asked you to sleep with his penis in your mouth. Would you do it? Why or why not?

My Master has asked me before to suck his cock first thing in the morning and I remember asking him if I could get up, pee, and have a drink of water first.  (I would also want to brush my teeth as I do first thing every morning.)  I guess he wasn’t too enthused with that compromise, because I never did it. I guess he never answered that question.  ??

Now, I think if he asked me to do it, I would change my mind and at least try.

Bonus: If you were remembered for one thing, what would it be?

I would wish to be thought of as sweet.  That’s it.

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TMI TUESDAY – October 1, 2013

1. Why do you like sexting or virtual sex (chatting, skype, etc.)?
I THINK IT IS A GREAT TOOL BEFORE YOU MEET SOMEONE IN PERSON. YOU CAN GET TO KNOW A LOT ABOUT A PERSON THROUGH CHATTING. I CHATTED WITH MY MASTER FOR A VERY, VERY LONG TIME BEFORE WE MET AND THEN WE CONTINUED TO CHAT AND CAM BETWEEN DATES. IT WAS GREAT FOR LONG-DISTANCE CONNECTING. NOW I HAVE HIM IN REAL 24/7 LIFE!!! AND NOW, WHEN WE ARE LOOKING FOR A COUPLE OR INDIVIDUAL TO PLAY WITH, WE OFTEN START OUT BY EMAIL AND THEN CHAT BEFORE MEETING.

2. When you’re about to “get busy”…get down & dirty, you know have sex, do you like to be undressed by your lover or take off all your clothes by yourself?
I LIKE TO BE FORCEFULLY UNDRESSED. AND SECOND BEST FOR ME IS BEING TOLD TO TAKE OFF CLOTHING. THESE LEAD ME TO THE FEELING THAT I HAVE TO SUBMIT WHICH IN TURN MAKES ME FEEL AND ACT MORE SUBMISSIVELY.

3. What is the most desperate thing you’ve done for sex?
WHEN I DRINK A LITTLE WINE, I REALLY LOOSEN UP AND THE MORE I DRINK, THE MORE I SAY THINGS, THAT, WELL, MIGHT BE A LITTLE DESPERATE. ONE TIME, RECENTLY, I WAS FEELING VERY BAD ABOUT MY BEHAVIOR AND MY MASTER HAD NOT PUNISHED ME AND I FELT I NEEDED TO BE PUNISHED AND I BEGGED HIM TO SMACK MY BREASTS AND PUSSY. I NORMALLY WOULD NEVER HAVE DONE THAT.

4. Libido booster drugs for women (viagra for women) will hit the market soon. Are you interested in trying them? Will you take the new drug(s)? Why or why not?
(If you are a man, would you like for your female lover to take such a drug?)
I’M NOT SURE WHAT THE SIDE EFFECTS MIGHT BE? IF THERE IS A TIME THAT COMES WHERE I LOSE ALL INTEREST IN SEX THEN I WOULD WELCOME SUCH A DRUG. I MEAN, WHY NOT?

Bonus: If it were legal in your country/community to visit a “sex box” would you? ONLY IF MY MASTER DEMANDED IT. OR IF HE DEMANDED THAT I SERVICE IN A SEX BOX.

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TMI TUESDAY – October 15, 2013

1. Could you date someone who is really into Legos? Their house consist of Lego furniture, the walls are covered in 3-D Lego art or photos of mammoth Lego creations.
I guess the first question that comes to mind, is – Is he more obsessed about legos than ANYTHING else? Because if he was, then he wouldn’t be as much into sex, right? or BDSM? or well, anything? So, in that case, NO.
But on the other hand, being tied up on a lego bed? hmmmmm….What about lego handcuffs? a lego cage? There could be possibilities…

2. You have a big date and discover that you have run out of undies (underwear, panties), would you:
a. re-wear dirty – NEVER
b. wear a swimsuit or swimsuit bottoms – NOT OPTIMAL
c. line worn undies with fresh panty-liners – UH, NO
d. go commando – BUT OF COURSE!

3. In order to date the person of your dreams, you must be in a reality show with them. Would you date him/her? Why?
It seems like a reality show might be a great way to get to know a person, NO? I’d have to pick amazing race or survivor so that maybe real personality might come through.

4. You have been dating a certain someone for a while, you two click and you really like them but they confided to you that they are a crime-fighting super hero? Do you still date them or let the relationship cool? Why?
But wouldn’t that be awesome? Of course, I’d have to see if he really had time for me, too, because if he didn’t, that would be a downer.

5. You are on a date with someone you really want to impress. Your pants/skirt/shirt/bra split early in the date. What do you do?
a. Tie a jacket or sweater around your waist or put the jacket or sweater on to hide the issue
b. Stop at a drugstore and buy safety pins, and in secret try to fix and hide problem
c. ‘Fess up to the problem, let it all hang out and continue with the date
d. Cut the date short and go home

If it were something that wasn’t too obvious, then I’d go with c. Afterall, I think honesty is impressive. If it couldn’t be something to laugh at, then the date would be over anyway. If it were really bad and could be embarrassing to me or the date, then I’d go with c, then d, where I then would invite him in. 🙂

Bonus:
You went away for the weekend with your new romantic love interest. He/she had planned a wonderful weekend of outdoor fun for you both but it has started to rain and storms are in the forecast for the next few days. What do you suggest the two of you do instead?

I’d suggest something indoors. I don’t like to be wet and cold. ugh! Perhaps, a wonderful weekend of indoor fun? Sex mixed with movies and wine sounds like fun!

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TMI Tuesday

1. Create your perfect job. What do you do?

  I actually work at my perfect job, except that I don’t make enough money.  LOL  Can’t really elaborate.

2. What person has changed you for the better?

Definitely my Master.  He is so awesome.  And so awesome for me.  He helps me to be more a better me.  

3. Cat person or dog person?

I am more of a dog person, but we have both!!!

4. Who is your favorite relative? Why?

Hmmm…that is a hard one.  I had a cousin that I was really tight with as a teen and young adult.  But now, I don’t really like hanging with my relatives too much.

5. Mop the floor or iron clothes?  

I guess it would have to be mopping the floor.  It doesn’t have to be exact and we live in a very small space.  On the other hand, I just use a spray wrinkly releaser.  LOL

6. Which would you rather have, a swimming pool or a gardener? Why?

Most definitely a swimming pool!  I really don’t have a green thumb.  And I don’t like bugs!

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Bonus: Are you better at giving oral sex or receiving oral sex?

I’ve been told by nearly everyone that I’ve given oral sex to, that I am the best.  Don’t know whether it is true or not, but I love being able to be so good at something like that!  Receiving? – well, I like it, but it is so hard to make me cum and I have an extremely sensitive clit.  On the other hand, when I cum, it is a screaming, head tossing orgasm.  So giving oral is definitely better than receiving it for me!

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If, Ands, and Butts

1. If you had a magic beauty wand, what would you give yourself?

a. Shinier hair, hands down.
b. Glowing, soft skin–pass the moisturizer dude.
c. Brighter eyes, with no crows feet—I want to look less tired.
d. Nada. I love what I’ve got.

2. If you were spring cleaning your life what five things would you throw out?

I would throw out

  • 30 pounds of weight
  • my need for naps
  • hangups from the past that still insist upon lingering
  • my occasional smartassness
  • my consistent indecision

3. If money were no object, what kind of house would you buy?

A very large, new sailboat – a live aboard – docked in a marina with all the amenities!

4. Have you ever visited an erotic massage parlor AND had a “happy ending”?

Never visited one.

Bonus: Using the handy chart, what is your butt type, spanked or not?  I think I am more cottage cheese, but with a bigger butt, while my Master says hot tamale.  awwww…Spanked I would have to say usually results in a pattern like biased, maybe sometimes pattycake.

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Spankification: Types of Spanked Butts by Dioneo Daspanca, 2011

Spankification: Author of original types of butts poster unknown.
Types of Spanked Butts by Dioneo Daspanca, 2011

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TMI Tuesday for July 17, 2012

Most importantly it is the theme of this week’s TMI Tuesday. Tell us about your bed.

 

1. What size (King, queen, full, twin)?  We have the most wonderful King sized bed.  I think that I’ve slept in a king sized bed for about 15 years.  Once you’ve had King-sized, you never go back.  hee-hee

 

2. What mattress construction (conventional springs, air bed, water bed, Tempurpedic-type)?  We have a spring mattress, but I wouldn’t consider it ‘conventional’.  It has a luxurious pillow top, and we paid a fortune for it.  It is the awesomest mattress that I’ve ever slept on (and now it is 6 years old!) 

 

3. What type furniture (just a frame, headboard/footboard, canopy, trundle, etc)? Describe.  Our bed frame can basically be described as ‘massive’.  It is a four poster wooden bed with marble and iron accents.  One post weighs 100#!  It reminded us of our honeymoon bed, but more luxurious!!!
4. If your bed has headboard/footboard or bedposts, have you ever been tied to them? Ever tied anyone to them? For what purpose? Oh, yes!  I have been tied to the bed for different play.
5. What kind of sheets (cotton, linen, silk, flannel)?  We actually prefer flannel.

 

6. What kind of blankets (cotton, wool, thermal, electric)?  We like heavy blankets, comforters, and afghans.  We like the room temp to be very cool.

 

7. What’s on top (bedspread, duvet,…)?  Comforters and afghans and sometimes our fake fur blankets.

 

8. What kind of pillow (down, foam, fiberfill)?  We have two king-sized memory foam pillows, and I have two feather pillows also.

 

Bonus:  Fill in the blank and answer question.

If _____ comes over, will you let them fuck you on your bed? Yes or no.  My Master and I are married and sleep every night in our bed.  Our play with others has never, thus far, been in our own bed.  I suspect that if our lives changed to include play in our house, then we would also include play in our bed, but I would defer that to my Master.

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