TMI Tuesday: December 2, 2014

It’s a new month, a new week, a new TMI Tuesday…

Relationships: beginning, middle, the end.


1. A sexy person you’ve been admiring says, “Let’s do something wild together.” What is the thing you pick to do?

Obviously, the sexy person I’ve been admiring would be my Dom.  And in that case, he would then name what it was we were going to do.  My guess would be a hook-up with a woman for some two girls, one guy kind of sex.  🙂

2. I saw this headline: Whip Your Vagina Into Shape. Sadly the subject matter wasn’t what I wanted. Anywho…which way would you prefer to whip your vagina into shape. (Fellas you can select your fave way you’d like to whip a pussy or see it whipped)
a. a nice, stingy pussy spanking by hand.
b. doing kegel exercises with kegel balls.
c. having some SM master/mistress actually whip your pussy, with a whip!

I would have to select letter a, because I have experienced this many times and I like it.  I would love to experience the other two.  😉

3. When in a relationship (married, living together or dating) What do you do if you want to be alone for a while? How do you get “me” time?

In our 24/7 relationship, we are together a lot, but we are also doing our own things sometimes.  Such as now, I’m blogging and he’s on his phone playing or texting someone.  A little earlier he was on his computer.  I also get alone time by taking a long bubble bath, after asking permission.  And I’m also alone in my car as I drive to and from work.  My Master does all the shopping and so while he’s gone, I have the house to myself. I don’t crave anymore me time than I already have.  🙂

4. Which of these subjects causes the most tension or fighting between you and your significant other?
a. in-laws
b. children/step-children
c. finances
d. housekeeping

Definitely finances.  We don’t fight about it, but we both at times have tension about it, basically because there is never enough, not because we disagree at spenditures.  I gave up all control of money when we married.  I accept the decisions and feel he does a great job.

5. When breaking up with someone or ending a relationship, which method is more your style?

a. dramatic exit– sending texts and phone calls and taking the chance to vent about all the things you didn’t like about the person.

b. play it cool and be upfront and tell them “it’s not working out.”

c. slow down the time you spend together…fade away and disappear without a word.

I would say letter b except for one thing.  It will never work that way if kids are involved…such as divorce which is really the only way I’ve been involved in a breakup.

6. I know none of YOU would ever break up with someone via text message (btw, there is an app for that but if you did, what would your text read?

Sorry dude.  It’s over!  LOL

Bonus:  Would you like you if you met you? Why?

I think so.  I think I’m kind, funny, willing to try lots of new and different things and I get excited over anything!  I also think I’m a great listener and can be a great and loyal friend.

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“The emotions aren’t always immediately subject to reason,
but they are always immediately subject to action”

Quote from philosopher-pyschologist William James

Laughter: What makes you laugh?

Lots of things make me laugh. My Master is hilarious and makes me laugh all the time. I think humor is very, very important!

Anger: This past week, who or what really pissed you off? What happened?

Honestly, I can’t really think of anything that pissed me off this week. I guess I did get somewhat mad at a friend who told me she would have to check her calendar in response to my lets get together (coworker not a sex partner). And then she never got back to me. I felt mad and rejected. awwww. oh, well, onward.

Fear: What phobia did you have but overcame?

I used to be deathly afraid of heights and I’ve somewhat overcome that. (The helicopter ride in the Bahamas kind of cured me. LOL)

Surprise: Recently, what unexpected act or behavior did you experience in your sex life?

Um, well, the last time we went on a playdate, I was actually on my period. I had a tampon in and still wanted to play, but only like me giving oral and so forth. Surprisingly, the woman of the couple we were playing with fucked me in the ass with a strap on dildo. I was surprised, but went with it as my Master was encouraging me. Also, Master bought me a really cute sundress!

Trust: Many on-going relationships have a certain predictability about them. Does that certainty translate into trust?

I’m not sure about that. I mean I totally trust my Master, but he is definitely not always predictable.

Excitement: Who do you excite?

I hope that I excite my Master. And I also hope that I excite whatever play partners we encounter.

Bonus: What intimate activity do you share with your partner, something that is meaningful to your relationship? For example Sunday breakfast in bed, cooking, maintenance spanking, etc.

There are sooo many things! I serve him coffee in bed and we often sit beside each other and get on our computers and converse and share as we do. We also text like crazy to each other. We spend a LOT of time together and we never tire of it. We’ve been married for 8 years! Things only get better.

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Today’s TMI Tuesday I’m Just Askin’ …

Just askin'

1. We are just a few months into 2014 but I want to know what have you done this year that you have never done before?

Let’s see. We moved twice, so to speak. Just moved again over Christmas. Now we live a few blocks from beach. THAT is exciting!

2. You are going to a deserted island, your only entertainment will be to read. What five (5) books will you take with you?

1. The Bible 2. Nook (assuming this deserted island has electricity – I mean, it could happen, couldn’t it?) lol 3. 4. and 5. would have to be some kind of survival manuals. haha….i like to be prepared.

3. We all change and grow over time (at least you should). What two (2) things do you miss about the old you? Why?

I miss my energy and strength from before my heart issues.

4. How would you define and calculate ‘sexual satisfaction’?

Sexual Satisfaction: The feelings that result from seeing or hearing my Master say that I am a good girl because I have made him orgasm with my body in some way and also, but secondly when i am fucked or i cum.

5. Porn–Has it ever been good for your relationship? Has it ever been bad for your relationship?

I believe that it has always been good. It is a turn on for my Master and for me and has broaden my horizons. I’ve learned so so much. Like I really had not seen any other woman’s pussy up close until I saw porn. I also had never heard a woman orgasm until I saw porn. (and learned to tell what was probably fake. LOL) I never saw a lot of things until porn, actually. 🙂

Bonus: Is there a secret you’d like to share? What is it?

I think I’m somewhat into pussy torture. (gasp!)

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TMI TUESDAY – October 15, 2013

1. Could you date someone who is really into Legos? Their house consist of Lego furniture, the walls are covered in 3-D Lego art or photos of mammoth Lego creations.
I guess the first question that comes to mind, is – Is he more obsessed about legos than ANYTHING else? Because if he was, then he wouldn’t be as much into sex, right? or BDSM? or well, anything? So, in that case, NO.
But on the other hand, being tied up on a lego bed? hmmmmm….What about lego handcuffs? a lego cage? There could be possibilities…

2. You have a big date and discover that you have run out of undies (underwear, panties), would you:
a. re-wear dirty – NEVER
b. wear a swimsuit or swimsuit bottoms – NOT OPTIMAL
c. line worn undies with fresh panty-liners – UH, NO
d. go commando – BUT OF COURSE!

3. In order to date the person of your dreams, you must be in a reality show with them. Would you date him/her? Why?
It seems like a reality show might be a great way to get to know a person, NO? I’d have to pick amazing race or survivor so that maybe real personality might come through.

4. You have been dating a certain someone for a while, you two click and you really like them but they confided to you that they are a crime-fighting super hero? Do you still date them or let the relationship cool? Why?
But wouldn’t that be awesome? Of course, I’d have to see if he really had time for me, too, because if he didn’t, that would be a downer.

5. You are on a date with someone you really want to impress. Your pants/skirt/shirt/bra split early in the date. What do you do?
a. Tie a jacket or sweater around your waist or put the jacket or sweater on to hide the issue
b. Stop at a drugstore and buy safety pins, and in secret try to fix and hide problem
c. ‘Fess up to the problem, let it all hang out and continue with the date
d. Cut the date short and go home

If it were something that wasn’t too obvious, then I’d go with c. Afterall, I think honesty is impressive. If it couldn’t be something to laugh at, then the date would be over anyway. If it were really bad and could be embarrassing to me or the date, then I’d go with c, then d, where I then would invite him in. 🙂

You went away for the weekend with your new romantic love interest. He/she had planned a wonderful weekend of outdoor fun for you both but it has started to rain and storms are in the forecast for the next few days. What do you suggest the two of you do instead?

I’d suggest something indoors. I don’t like to be wet and cold. ugh! Perhaps, a wonderful weekend of indoor fun? Sex mixed with movies and wine sounds like fun!

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1. Create your perfect job. What do you do?

  I actually work at my perfect job, except that I don’t make enough money.  LOL  Can’t really elaborate.

2. What person has changed you for the better?

Definitely my Master.  He is so awesome.  And so awesome for me.  He helps me to be more a better me.  

3. Cat person or dog person?

I am more of a dog person, but we have both!!!

4. Who is your favorite relative? Why?

Hmmm…that is a hard one.  I had a cousin that I was really tight with as a teen and young adult.  But now, I don’t really like hanging with my relatives too much.

5. Mop the floor or iron clothes?  

I guess it would have to be mopping the floor.  It doesn’t have to be exact and we live in a very small space.  On the other hand, I just use a spray wrinkly releaser.  LOL

6. Which would you rather have, a swimming pool or a gardener? Why?

Most definitely a swimming pool!  I really don’t have a green thumb.  And I don’t like bugs!

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Bonus: Are you better at giving oral sex or receiving oral sex?

I’ve been told by nearly everyone that I’ve given oral sex to, that I am the best.  Don’t know whether it is true or not, but I love being able to be so good at something like that!  Receiving? – well, I like it, but it is so hard to make me cum and I have an extremely sensitive clit.  On the other hand, when I cum, it is a screaming, head tossing orgasm.  So giving oral is definitely better than receiving it for me!


If, Ands, and Butts

1. If you had a magic beauty wand, what would you give yourself?

a. Shinier hair, hands down.
b. Glowing, soft skin–pass the moisturizer dude.
c. Brighter eyes, with no crows feet—I want to look less tired.
d. Nada. I love what I’ve got.

2. If you were spring cleaning your life what five things would you throw out?

I would throw out

  • 30 pounds of weight
  • my need for naps
  • hangups from the past that still insist upon lingering
  • my occasional smartassness
  • my consistent indecision

3. If money were no object, what kind of house would you buy?

A very large, new sailboat – a live aboard – docked in a marina with all the amenities!

4. Have you ever visited an erotic massage parlor AND had a “happy ending”?

Never visited one.

Bonus: Using the handy chart, what is your butt type, spanked or not?  I think I am more cottage cheese, but with a bigger butt, while my Master says hot tamale.  awwww…Spanked I would have to say usually results in a pattern like biased, maybe sometimes pattycake.

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Spankification: Types of Spanked Butts by Dioneo Daspanca, 2011

Spankification: Author of original types of butts poster unknown.
Types of Spanked Butts by Dioneo Daspanca, 2011


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